6 of us!

6 of us!

6.10.2014

5th batch

Choosing Thus the Kinder Plan(taken from the hymn Nay Speak No Ill)
1. Nay, speak no ill; a kindly word
Can never leave a sting behind;
And, oh, to breathe each tale we've heard
Is far beneath a noble mind.
Full oft a better seed is sown
By choosing thus the kinder plan,
For, if but little good is known,
Still let us speak the best we can.
2. Give me the heart that fain would hide,
Would fain another's faults efface.
How can it please the human pride
To prove humanity but base?
No, let us reach a higher mood,
A nobler estimate of man;
Be earnest in the search for good,
And speak of all the best we can.
3. Then speak no ill, but lenient be
To others' failings as your own.
If you're the first a fault to see,
Be not the first to make it known,
For life is but a passing day;
No lip may tell how brief its span.
Then, oh, the little time we stay,
Let's speak of all the best we can.



Becky Anderson
She talks about Peter in the New Testament and her study of him.  How he had such a strong testimony, but was still weak.  After bearing strong testimony of the Savior, he denies even knowing the Savior, and returns his former life, small and insignificant.  (I've tried this concept so many times in motherhood,  trying to return to my formal life, but it doesn't work.  I am no longer the person I was 11 years ago! But I continually learn things, or just remember, about myself: Sunshine and being outside regularly makes me happy!  Having alone time makes me happy!  Spiritual nourishment daily is essential! Having a schedule or ideas of things to do can make me happy.)
The Savior can make me enough even when I don't feel like I'm enough. 
The speaker had breast cancer, that was inoperable.  She received several treatments of radiation and chemotherapy.  During the middle of treatments, she had some tests done, to check the status of the tumor.  Much to her dismay, the tumor was unchanged.  She plead with Heavenly Father to be able to live so she could raise her boys.  She said she almost felt like a child having a tantrum.  She didn't feel peace about her illness and the trials that came with it until she gave up her will, and her desires.  Once she did, she felt peace.  And God's will was that she should live and she has recovered!
The Savior knows All, our strengths and our weaknesses
What is the kinder plan for me?  I know it involves doing hard things I'd rather not do. (This is my goal path for the next little bit.)  I might post it.
D&C 98:1-3
 Verily I say unto you my friends, afear not, let your hearts be comforted; yea, rejoice evermore
and in everything give bthanks;
 aWaiting patiently on the Lord, for your prayers have entered into the ears of the Lord of Sabaoth, and are recorded with this seal and testament—the Lord hath sworn and decreed that they shall be granted.
 Therefore, he giveth this promise unto you, with an immutable covenant that they shall be fulfilled; and all things wherewith you have been aafflicted shall work together for yourbgood, and to my name’s glory, saith the Lord.

She was so excited about the word Sabaoth.  It's in the Bible Dictionary, different than Sabbath. It is:
Hosts. The Lord of Sabaoth was a title of Jehovah; the hosts were the armies of Israel (1 Sam. 17:45) but also included the angelic armies of heaven (Judg. 5:20; 2 Kgs. 6:17; Rom. 9:29; James 5:4; see also D&C 87:7; 88:2; 95:7; 98:2).
Who will be in our army?
Follow the Lord in all things! Accept His will and do it.
Nan Rasmussen
A quote from Neal A. Maxwell but paraphrased-We are here in mortality and the only way is through.
Sister Hinckley-We can either laugh or cry in life, I choose to laugh, crying gives me a headache.
*laughter is a great natural medicine: it boosts immune system, relieves stress, improves mood, strengthens relationships, binds people together, no negative thoughts can enter, can heal when accompanied by love.  Humor gets you out of your head and away from worries.
Laughter helps combat negativity.  Laugh at yourself!
The adversary(devil) cannot deal with a sense of humor...(this was a quote from a general authority.  I would like to find it and read the whole quote)
We can learn to laugh and we can choose to laugh.  Not sarcasm or laughing at others in a harmful way.  She told a story of a mother who made a delicious strawberry pie to take to a big family dinner.  Her young daughter insisted on carrying it from the car to the house.  She made it just to the front step, tripped and the pie spilled all over the sidewalk.  The wise mother said "hurry in the house and grab some spoons!"
Even if you're not happy, put a smile on your face
Go forward with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face.
Choose the kinder plan
Manners and coercion vs humor/laughter (think of the Savior's way of teaching)
1. Choose to accept that you are a child of God
2. Choose to put everything on the altar, use agency to accept and do His will
3. Choose to put yourself in a position to have experiences with Him
4. Choose to obey/keep covenants
5. Choose to prepare and attend temple
6. Choose to believe in the Atonement, accept Savior's forgiveness and forgive yourself
The story of the lady who is often referred to as the "tattooed" Mormon
http://www.deseretnews.com/article/765626083/Al-Fox-Tattooed-Mormon.html?pg=all
2 Nephi 10:23
23 Therefore, acheer up your hearts, and remember that ye arebfree to cact for yourselves—to dchoose the way of everlasting death or the way of eternal life.


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