Hawaii Part 5-Luau

Cheesy picture of us that we took ourselves.
Food from the buffet at the luau included roasted pig, chicken, chicken long rice (clear noodle things), poi, salmon and some other fish, and the purple roll is a taro roll. That was my favorite item of the meal. It tastes like a regular bun, it's just made from taro, which turns purple when it is cooked.
A delicious pina colada smoothie served in this fresh pineapple

Celebrating Womanhood

Today is Mother's Day. I was reading something this morning that Sheri Dew said about the influence of all women. There are women in this life who won't have the opportunity to have children of their own. I am not one of them but I really appreciate the influence that all righteous women can have. Sheri Dew talked several times about our divine role as women and it included motherhood, whether or not you have your own children. I have a wonderful mother and I get to be a mother now, but there are many women in my life who have influenced me who are not my mother in the physical sense. This is a testimony to Sis. Dew's statement and ideas that we are ALL mothers. I hope that all women feel honored and special today, regardless of their circumstances. I'm grateful for all the mothers in my life who have given of themselves to help me in so many ways.

Hawaii Part 4-more PCC

This is the plaque underneath the fire hydrant from the next picture. If you click on the picture you can probably read it. I'm impressed with the dedication of these early Saints who were willing to heed the "call to Zion"


Fiji has some interesting stories of practices that used to take place. This is a picture of the King's house. His is the big bed and the best wife slept on the floor next to him. The king's house had 4 doors. One was specifically for him and if anyone entered through that door, they were killed. Also, if the king died the best wife was also killed to go with him. When they built the king's house, the three best soldiers were buried alive underneath the home so they could protect it, or something like that. Being mediocre in this culture would have been advantageous if you wanted to live.

Hawaii Part 3- PCC

Making poi (poy) This tastes very plain but I mixed it with some meat at the luau and it was just great.
canoe ride, our canoe pusher was from Fiji and knew Ryan, Stan's brother, we wrote his name down
Beke, our tour guide. She was from Mongolia. We were happy to upgrade our tickets so she could guide us around and help us manage our time. She was great. We had a family in our group from Calgary and a couple from Colorado. They were all very friendly and fun to be with.
The Polynesian Cultural Center was a favorite spot for us. I loved learning about all the cultures. More to come...

Hawaii Part 2

The flower looked like a bird, this one was mostly for the kids
Beautiful Sunset Beach
Everything is so green and there is foliage everywhere. I loved it
Not sure what Stan is holding.
We stayed on the North Shore near Laie and spent all of our time there except one day. We were so happy to drive out of the big city where there are tons of people and lots of traffic all the time.

Hawaii! Part 1

We upgraded our Cavelier for this. It was a lot more fun and worth the extra money. Stan enjoyed it much more than I did but I'm not sure I would ever want to own one, so it was fun to rent and enjoy the breeze and the heat as we cruised around. (We saw several trees that had buoys in them, anyone know why?)
Fun to see different kinds of trees, all without a trace of snow!

This one, and many others, grew around the power lines.
These kinds of trees are everywhere in Hawaii.

Disregard the face and look at the beautiful grounds and Temple in Laie
That's better
The whole street from the ocean leads up to the grounds of the Temple on the hill. It's stunning.
I LOVE HAWAII! The weather was beautiful the whole time we were there. The culture, due to the mixture of people is fun and interesting, the ocean was fun, and I loved that it is a civilized place. I would definitely re-visit Hawaii. There is a lot to do if you want to but there is always the beach.
As you can see from the pictures above, we visited the Temple, twice actually, and I could have gone again. I love the Temple! My favorite place on Earth to be. It was the best place to start our week long retreat. One lady in the Temple told me I was adorable from head to toe. That makes a pregnant woman feel pretty great.

The value of a great husband...

is priceless. Our family has thoroughly enjoyed having Stan physically and mentally present over the past several weeks. We knew having him in school, working full-time, and having a busy calling would be hard on our family but you never actually know how hard until you are trying to live through it. He just completed the first half of his MBA program and passed his big test! He is taking a break for a while and we are so grateful. I can't even begin to say how much I appreciate how much he helps me. Feeling like a single mom is so hard. I really respect those women who really are single moms. This post is just to praise Stan and his valiants efforts! He always wants to help and be supportive and now he gets to do it and it is so much appreciated by me and the kids! We love our husband and dad so much and are so grateful to have whatever time we get to have with him before he decides to finish the rest of his schooling.

One week

Only a week left until Stan and I are enjoying some sun and heat on the beautiful island of Oahu! I can't wait. The kids are also excited to spend a week with grandma and grandpa Wright.
And while I'm posting, I'll share our most exciting news:
A baby boy will be joining our family sometime in early September! We are all super excited. I was extremely relieved to find out he is healthy so far and growing as he should be. This is the first time we've ever found out the gender prior to birth. I'm excited to think of names. Joel has one suggestion he is stuck on. I actually like it too. I feel compelled to name this boy after someone in our family line with a really neat story. I'm on the hunt. Anyone who reads this that is related to us can offer suggestions...

LOVE this movie

They've just released a new version of the Joseph Smith movie online. It's awesome! A great way for others who aren't familiar with the beginnings of the restored Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the doctrines.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xVw6PsSinI

Macy had a birthday

Macy is our child that really likes to play with toys. She asked for several different things but was never really set on one thing in particular. When she opened this Barbie set she said: "I was wishing for this!" It was so cute.


The kids did a great job decorating the cupcakes. We had just returned home from Calgary so I was happy for the help.
We are all so glad Macy is a part of our family. She makes us laugh, she's great at sharing and helping, and she's willing to let us know what she thinks and how she feels about most anything. I hope she doesn't ever grow out of any of it.
Sidenote:
Being around the kids ALL the time makes me wonder if I've always been this boring. Somehow in becoming a mother, I've set aside some things that have made me who I am, or who I thought I was. I didn't do it on purpose, it just kind of happened. Somehow I need to integrate my personality and interests into family life more. Any suggestions?

A little field trip

Stan had to visit Banff for work so we tagged along to help break up the monotony of our dreary winter. They have a museum there with real stuffed animals. The kids love that sort of thing. Here's some of the pictures we took while we were there. We learned that Banff was the first National Park in Canada, established in 1885 or so. The building that this museum is located in, was built in the early 1900s and it's the original one. It has been updated but it's a pretty neat place.
There were five different antlers that we had to indentify. We got them all right! Do you know what this is?
Macy liked all the animals except the dark grey wolf. She's just cute next to anything.
A little bit about the building.
And here they are after we visited one of the candy shops, in front of the museum. We stayed the night in Calgary at a favorite hotel that Stan stays at frequently for work and had a great time swimming. No pictures of the swimming. I seem to forget the work it takes to travel "alone" with the kids since Stan was busy, but I still think it was worth it to get away from our house for a couple of days.

Crossing the border

Today I became Canadian, officially, sworn in, citizenship card in hand. It was an interesting experience. I have recently been thinking about my border crossing experiences. Each time, I have similar feelings. As I approach the U.S. I feel excitement and anticipation and sometimes wish I could just live in my "home," the country where I grew up. I feel like I'm home when I'm there. But each time I return to Canada, I feel relief and a sense of "home," for this is my home now. This last time I passed back into Canada, the border guard welcomed me back to Canada. It was comforting to me.
So today as I was listening to the welcome speech in the citizenship ceremony, then promising to obey the laws and be a good citizen, and finally singing "O, Canada," I had mixed emotions. I felt like I was finally making that next and more official step into the new life I've already been living for several years. Thankfully I don't have to give up my U.S. citizenship but I can now actively participate here where I live. And I am determined to be a better citizen and to try to know something of what is going on around me.

One more, while I'm at it

Stan and I celebrate 10 years of marriage this year. We're going to Hawaii to celebrate. We are staying on Oahu. Those readers who have been, we would love some suggestions of must see places, or must do hikes, walks, drives, etc.

Houston

This winter has been long, cold, and dreary. I looked for a plane ticket to Houston, for fun, to go see my sister. The tickets were cheap! My mom and I went for a weekend in February and my dad watched the kids. I still sometimes can't believe he did it. He must really love me. The kids had fun and he survived the experience. My mom and I had fun with my sister. It was so much warmer than here at home. We enjoyed sunshine, quiet, a temple session, some yummy meals, and lots of good visiting time. We went to Galveston just to see it. It didn't look too devastated. I'm sure a lot of rebuilding has happened since Hurricane Ike in 2008. We had to go to the ocean because we were close. They have many of their houses built on stilts. Smart idea.

The excitement of Christmas

I LOVE these faces! Not just how excited they are but for what. They are so easy to please and it makes gift giving so fun. I hope we don't become too materialized that these excited faces only show for expensive or electronic gifts. I have to admit that sometimes Stan wonders if what I bought will suffice. Then he sees these faces and his confidence grows.... I guess I know my kids better than I think sometimes.
We also bought them a candy machine. We are going to help them start a business. Stan has been too busy and we haven't found a place to put it yet, but it will happen and they are going to learn in real ways how to manage money so they'll be prepared for real life when they leave home.

the kids find fun

I'm reading a book right now about creativity and how everyone can and should develop it. It is fascinating. All kids ooze with creativity and imagination and I think over time many of us lose it, for various reasons. Not everyone is or should be creative in the same ways, that's what makes families, workplaces, church groups, etc what they are. It's good to have variety. I've been away from blogging for awhile for no other reason than too lazy to catch up. So I'm making an attempt. These pictures show some of the kids creativity and their excitement and love for life. What is it about my life that I don't find as much joy as these sweet kids? I'm missing something big...

Brynn's baptism

Brynn was baptized on a blizzardy night in early February. Thankfully the roads were fine the day before so the grandparents could travel here safely. It was a special time for us and for Brynn. We are proud of her for making this decision to be baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She is a great example to her siblings and friends. She even made invitations for all of our neighbors and several friends.

The Blind Side

I just finished reading a book that I found really interesting. It is The Blind Side by Michael Lewis. There is a movie made about it that I haven't seen. My sister-in-law was nice enough to edit her book with a lot of white out, so I could read it easier (I'm not afraid to admit that I don't like to read books or watch movies with a lot of swearing.)
A few things I really liked about the book:
-Tom Lemming, who is famous for gathering and compiling football stats to distribute to coaches, etc, began this dream without pay for 7 years! What sacrifice for something he really believed in and loved doing.
-this quote "what sets football apart from other sports is that what you don't see is often the most important thing." This is so true in many aspects of life. Motherhood is this way. Parenthood in general. I think many times in our lives as we give service, we do it quietly and unnoticed, as the Savior did.
-The Tuohy family was amazing. They LOVE sports, saw something unique in Michael Oher and helped give him the opportunities he needed to be successful in life They were mentors. They believed in him and helped in ways never could have happened without another mentor figure.
If you like sports, football especially, you'll love this. Even if you don't, the messages of the book were inspiring. (Remember there is a lot of swearing in the book. I'm not sure about the movie because I haven't seen it.)

The weather

We are almost half way through January and I always forget why I'm so frustrated this time of year. Winter didn't even come early this year but it never fails that January, February and sometimes March are horribly LONG months. It might just be because of my location on the planet. I can't change my circumstances but I sure am sick of being stuck inside, no sunshine, crazy kids, and overall tiredness. There is a TON of snow but it's way too cold to even think about playing in it. We tried the other day and poor Macy's feet took a long time to recover from the experience. How do you beat the winter blues?

follow up

Last night Brynn slept all through the night! She feels so much better today and we are so happy that we all got to sleep for a good, normal chunk of time. We had a chat with her and let her know there would be consequences for the crazy behavior in the night, the same as if it were day time. Prayers and other things worked! Here's hoping we've crossed the hump and returning to "normal."

Help

We are having a most unusual situation with one of our children. I'm at my wits end and not sure what to do.
This child as a toddler when put to bed would SCREAM until she fell asleep. She refused to be rocked, cuddled or soothed in any way. It just didn't work. It was awful for everyone involved in the bed time routine. By the time she was in a normal bed, this habit had ended. However, 3 nights ago, she threw-up and for some reason, her night time world has been thrown askew. She was afraid to return to sleep that night and was up until 1 or 2 in the morning, back and forth in our room and her bed. We don't allow the children to sleep in our room except as a privelege and what they call a "sleepover." I went and slept in the guest bedroom and let Stan deal with Brynn. He has more patience than I do at night. The next day she woke up, sweet as can be, as if she hadn't been freaking out for half of the night. We put her to bed the next night and she tried to become overanxious with us and say she couldn't go to sleep for whatever reason, begging to sleep in our room, stay up, be slept with, thousands of hugs and prayers. She was desparate. She finally drifted off to sleep when she realized we weren't playing games. However, at 1 in the morning, she woke up, demanding attention. She SCREAMED when she learned we still weren't playing the games. We had to take her to the basement because she was causing such a fuss. We had made a deal with her and in her completely overtired and overanxious state she didn't keep her end of the bargain. She was completely irrational and unable to be reasoned with, just like a toddler. It was FRUSTRATING, to say the least. Night 3, last night, started much the same. We did all the usual, this was after a day of praise of all kinds, for everything good she did, to make sure she knew that she is loved and appreciated, etc. She tried playing tricks again. We decided in order to keep our sanity, we would lock our bedroom door in the night time. If the kids need us, they'll knock. I wake easily. Well, she freaked out again last night, earlier this time. Screaming, beating on our door etc. We let her know we were here and we had prayed with her and for her. Several hugs were given, etc. Does anyone have any advice? Is this normal for an 8 year old to return to toddler-like behavior? She's too big to put in a crib she can't climb out of. We are all exhausted and by night time she is nearly delirious and then we start all over again. I have to say that we've been more patient than usual, thanks to the help of the Spirit, but we could use some ideas if anyone has any! I only post these details of crazy behavior because I want help.

Inspiring

I love this story of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. We also learned about Handel last week in our homeschool, from the December Ensign.
Two things that stood out to me from these learning experiences were:
1. These men were ordinary people, like all of us.
2. They were inspired to do something and ACTED on it. As a result, the world or mankind is blessed.
This gives me great hope as journey through the adventures of homeschooling. It is so easy to get discouraged and want to give up. I'm learning that every mother in this same journey, experiences all the same feelings. Even as mothers we have feelings of despair at times. These challenging experiences are what help us grow, and keep us on our knees seeking guidance from the one who knows our children the best.

Click here to watch a brief story of Longfellow's writing of I heard the Bells

Brynn is 8

I've been reflecting over the last 8 years today. I still can't believe that all that time has passed. It's fun to think of the ball of energy she has always been and continues to be, but more fun is seeing how she is growing and maturing. She has a testimony and is so excited to be baptized in a few weeks. I'll post some pictures of her friend party and other stuff when I get around to it.
The other thing I discovered and wanted to share was a new website linked with Lds.org. It's all about Christmas, there are videos, songs traditions, etc. It's great, check it out here:
http://lds.org/topic/christmas/christmas_video_2.html

Stan and I have listened to two interviews of apostles on the Mormon Channel. It is inspiring to learn of their lives. We listened to Elder Holland's most recently. Amazing! He and his wife have been through a lot in their lives, holding several busy church positions, and varying large responsibilities. It was inspiring to me to hear how they made it through. Spouses first, family next, then the rest of their energy was spent for all the rest. Plain and simple. Having a husband who is generally super busy, I can attest to this simple formula. Over the last few months we've spent 15 minutes together every day some time after he returns home from work. He lets me talk about concerns, excitement, or whatever. Occasionally he talks. I can't tell you what a HUGE difference this has made in our marriage. I feel heard and understood and loved, by only 15 minutes of focused time. I guess it suits my love language more than anything else right now. Random thoughts for the day...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWEET BRYNN!

Thanksgiving

After I moved to Canada I often wondered why Thanksgiving was celebrated in October instead of November, like I was used to. As I read about the pilgrims this year, I think I learned why. The pilgrims first landed in Massachussets at the end of November but didn't reach their settling point, Plymouth Rock, until December. It was too late for a feast that year. The Indians were kind enough to share their food so the pilgrims didn't starve and die. Although, many did die because of exposure and sickness. The first Thanksgiving was celebrated the following mid-October where they invited the Indians to feast with them, expressing their thanks for their help in teaching them how to plant and care for their crops. I was happy to learn that, and put my wonder to rest for that question.

The test

I've recently been reading in my scriptures about righteous peopleof high church position, recieving great temptations to prove them, see if they are as strong as they are striving to be. Today must have been one of those days for me. I don't aspire to be someone of high church position, but I do try my best to live the commandments and do what I should be doing. I failed the test without even realizing it was a test but it has brought me to where I need to be, on my knees asking Heavenly Father for help. Being a mom is hard, I've always been one to admit it. Over the last year, since we started homeschool, many people say, "I don't know how you do it," or "you are so amazing to do that," or "I could never do that," or "you are so brave." The reply to those statements are "neither do I, it's not about me, yes you could, and brave is not the right word." The challenge I'm having this week with homeschool is being with the children on a never ending basis. At least it feels that way. I feel like a maid, a drill sargeant, and a servant. It's not even that the kids aren't always obedient, well-behaved, respectful, and kind. It's just that my personality demands a certain amount of rejuvination time and alone time. I never realize I didn't get enough until it's too late and I've gone crazy.
The positive note to this ordeal is that my husband is amazing. I would have left the house but it's -30C and I'm not crazy enough to go out alone in it. Stan locked me in my room with a book, a warm bath, and dinner by myself. He is currently working on an action plan with the kids of how they can regain my trust. Then he'll tuck them nicely into bed and I won't see them until tomorrow morning, when I hope to be refreshed. Why didn't I think of this earlier? Why did I wait until I was ready to sell the children to the neighbor? I'll have to remember to book myself some regular room time, it might just be all I need...

busted

I often find Brynn and Joel in her room talking or playing or reading. They were anxious to go in her room to spend some time together. After a little while, I decided to see what they were doing because I hadn't heard a sound. This was their confession...
Their expressions truly describe their reaction to being caught with the candy.

Joel's turn

It's so fun to see Joel doing what we all love.

HALLOWEEN

The Young Men and Women in our ward did a trunk or treat. It was simple and short and the kids came home with WAY too much candy.



Macy was completely worn out. It was a long week of late nights...

memorize

As part of our school, we have been working on the Articles of Faith. Macy is getting more than I realize. Here she is performing.

Brynn's project

My dad made this bookshelf for the girls and Brynn wanted to paint it pink, since I won't let her paint her walls pink. She also painted the wall shelf. She was pretty proud of herself.

dress up fun

Stan went to India in September and brought us back some clothes. For school one afternoon, we dressed up and made paper dolls and talked about different clothing around the world. It was really fun.

BOOKS

I love this. To me it portrays happiness, contentment and education. Macy had a class at the library
this morning. While she was busy, the older two scoured through the library books to pick their stack to bring home. It's so fun to watch them as they get so excited about the adventures they will read. Then, to come home and have perfect stillness as they all read and read and read. Guess what I was doing? Online scrapbooking. I should have been reading but they were so content, I had to get a jump on my first real project. It's for family history, after all.

front yard

We completed a project this summer. I don't even want to remember how many hours we put into this project. It used to be rocks, dying shrubs, a nice lily, and TONS of weeds. After removing all the unwanted stuff, we had to bring in some topsoil and then we got to lay sod. We are so happy with the final result. Everytime I look at it, I'm so grateful that we have nice grass that is growing. It makes a huge difference. I can't find a picture of the mess it was before so you'll just have to imagine a weed bed and some ugly shrubs.

Reality

I have been toting around my wedding dress for 9 years now. I'm not very attached to "things" and wondered what I could do with it. I thought of selling it but wasn't sure I'd get anything for it now, after 9 years. I wanted to make a blessing dress or suit out of it but the timing didn't work out, at least not yet. So, I had this great idea to use it to make a baptism dress for Brynn. I'm actually really excited about it. She turns 8 in December. I had to try on my dress one more time, just to see.... I hadn't worn it since I was married and I was positive that I wasn't the same size. Guess what I learned? It didn't fit. I didn't feel bad about cutting it up. =)